A Deal: In Child Support

Child support

I want to say that I shout out to all the fathers and feel the struggle that presents itself more often than not in today’s society when families are destroyed and children are involved. Today most people seek the idea of keeping up and getting ahead financially. But sadly, most situations don’t realize the break down and set back a divorce or separation when children are involved does to a family’s empire. Shout out to all the fathers out there that are facing the hardship of providing for not only one family but for two.

Things get really hard, and I know that no man imagines the possibility that they could no longer see their children at night after a hard day of work. And I have to say; a hard day’s work is usually the result of the father having and believing rightfully that he has something to work hard for, and that is a growing family to care for.

In today’s unfortunate times for men get a bad deal. And women are faced with a shrinking faith. A shrinking desire to be faithful. The people in the United States as a whole are becoming more and more aware of what religious institutions mean and how the diversification along with miseducation has caused confusion. Well, so that I’m not misleading people as to what I’m thinking, I’m simply saying; people are weak and are affected by the what others do and say about them which leads to uncertain results.

So on to “child support” … What is in the best interest for the children, when a relationship seems to be fracturing from all angles. In the early years 50’, 60’, and a little later, men where the bread winners collecting the green from the trees. And yes, money does grow on trees if you really think about where paper comes from. But men use to be the only one supporting the family financially. Fast forward to today’s time. Men and women have to work and make money because of the growing expenses or cost of living. So child support needs to be treated like a 529 investment account type thing. Child support needs to come from both parents simply to help the child or children grow and learn new things that could place them at an advantage. So that, the broken remnants of a relationship can be overcome. So again I ask “what is the best interest for the children?”

I like to encourage fathers to think of a divorced relationship like polygyny. And hear me out before you stop reading…

----You will have a relationship with the person you have divorced no matter. But because you have children with that person, that is now the worst person on the planet, you still have responsibilities with that person. I like to think, the end of the world is not hear yet. I am still breathing, working, and able to find someone that is more loving and supportive than the first wife. Me personally, I believe that children are the future; literally speaking and figuratively speaking. They are the ones that will be here longer than I and see the world after I pass. 

----So that said, invest your time and your money into that little person. You never know what they will be, you never know who they will end up loving more, you never know how life adventures for them will change you or their other parent tomorrow. Polygyny – by definition means “a pattern of mating in which a male animal has more than one female mate”, yes I know…. The whole set up on of those types of relations in which a male has more than one wife. The idea is financial freedom and building a foundation that supports a child or children and building wealth. But consider child support as a way to continue that child’s future.

Lastly:

Always live within your means to success. Always protect yourself by the law and your children’s relationship. And always remember the statistics reported, there are more women than men living today – “so plenty of fish in the sea”.

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