A Guide to Loving Oneself Like You Love Others
July 7th 2018,
I have seeked to write this "Guide to Loving Oneself Like You Love Others" for about 6 months now. And now the perfect time is none like the very moment.
My idea of loving myself like I love others comes from a very dark dream I experienced 8 months ago."During the dream, I was married. And everyday I would seek to build a story that I could not record. And throughout the daily activities I suddenly realized that I was in a rat trap. A trap that seemed to not go anywhere. A rat trap that showed me the same picture on the wall, the same kitchen foods I desired to cook etc. Then it dawned on me, most of my activities were to provide for the family. I loved doing things that would make my kids, family, and spouse happy and when I went to work. I tried hard to make others smile and not feel the mundane existence of coming to work and simply existing for 8 hours a day for only 2 days a weekend to spend with family. Then I woke up..." And throughout the 6 month time, I have been pondering the dream and finally, I realize that my whole existence is built on a great love for others. Now recently, I have trained myself to show that same care for myself. And what I mean by this is that I purposely seek to remind myself to make things and smiles for myself not dreading the negative but making it a story that I can win with.
I mean, most of us don't plan to hurt ourselves purposely but when we are alone we tend to relax those concerns that made our hearts pump. I guess everyone can imagine something similar to how facebook, instagram, or twitter users live there social media lives. Most are presenting a story of their lives that makes others happy to witness, but when you go to there home you tend witness the foundation is damaged and you see the insecurities that people don't depict.
My articles primary focus is to the male or boy in todays society. I focus so heavily on this because I fell that woman are unaware of this natural DNA for men. My focus is because men are taking a beating in todays societies because the moment for them has not started yet. More and more men are coming from other countries taking over and taking position to instruct and the movement for men and boys has not started therefore the ideas are being dropped and left behind. Men are protector, hunter personallities. But although they are those two, the other thing that men consist of is logic, compassion and love. Love being the main personality trait. I have become an advicate for loving onself similary to the way you love others because I believe that through the eyes of loving oneself is the only way you can eventually love someone else better to reach that unconditional love status. For most men, studies have shown that they care for themself better when there is a significant other, friend, family member or spouse involved in their lives.
One thing I am not saying is that men harm themselves without this built in meditation of consiousness to love themselves. I would venture to say that you don't want to hurt others naturally but like any War Zone known to men today, protecting yourself is primarily to help others survive and come back to loved ones.
I have seeked to write this "Guide to Loving Oneself Like You Love Others" for about 6 months now. And now the perfect time is none like the very moment.
My idea of loving myself like I love others comes from a very dark dream I experienced 8 months ago."During the dream, I was married. And everyday I would seek to build a story that I could not record. And throughout the daily activities I suddenly realized that I was in a rat trap. A trap that seemed to not go anywhere. A rat trap that showed me the same picture on the wall, the same kitchen foods I desired to cook etc. Then it dawned on me, most of my activities were to provide for the family. I loved doing things that would make my kids, family, and spouse happy and when I went to work. I tried hard to make others smile and not feel the mundane existence of coming to work and simply existing for 8 hours a day for only 2 days a weekend to spend with family. Then I woke up..." And throughout the 6 month time, I have been pondering the dream and finally, I realize that my whole existence is built on a great love for others. Now recently, I have trained myself to show that same care for myself. And what I mean by this is that I purposely seek to remind myself to make things and smiles for myself not dreading the negative but making it a story that I can win with.
I mean, most of us don't plan to hurt ourselves purposely but when we are alone we tend to relax those concerns that made our hearts pump. I guess everyone can imagine something similar to how facebook, instagram, or twitter users live there social media lives. Most are presenting a story of their lives that makes others happy to witness, but when you go to there home you tend witness the foundation is damaged and you see the insecurities that people don't depict.
My articles primary focus is to the male or boy in todays society. I focus so heavily on this because I fell that woman are unaware of this natural DNA for men. My focus is because men are taking a beating in todays societies because the moment for them has not started yet. More and more men are coming from other countries taking over and taking position to instruct and the movement for men and boys has not started therefore the ideas are being dropped and left behind. Men are protector, hunter personallities. But although they are those two, the other thing that men consist of is logic, compassion and love. Love being the main personality trait. I have become an advicate for loving onself similary to the way you love others because I believe that through the eyes of loving oneself is the only way you can eventually love someone else better to reach that unconditional love status. For most men, studies have shown that they care for themself better when there is a significant other, friend, family member or spouse involved in their lives.
One thing I am not saying is that men harm themselves without this built in meditation of consiousness to love themselves. I would venture to say that you don't want to hurt others naturally but like any War Zone known to men today, protecting yourself is primarily to help others survive and come back to loved ones.
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